Love's all you need to adopt a child

Published Saturday November 7th, 2009
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Many advantages in life can be acquired. But what of the first resource a helpless child must depend upon?

Without a loving and supportive family, children get a hard start in life. That's why the New Brunswick Adoption Foundation was created.

Through charitable events and public information campaigns, the foundation strives to raise awareness of the number of children waiting for an adoptive parent or parents. In seven years, its efforts have brought about a 400-per-cent increase in the number of adoptions. The public response has been tremendous, but the need continues to exceed the demand.

More than 600 children in New Brunswick are available for adoption. The majority are more than 12 years old. November is national adoption month, and the foundation is calling on all New Brunswickers to ask themselves whether they can be part of the solution.

The issue of adoption has been clouded by myths which lead many people to believe the process is more restrictive than it is. You do not have to earn a particular income to qualify as a prospective parent, nor is there an age limit. Single people, older couples, same-sex couples - all can qualify. The focus is on providing a caring, committed family environment and understanding the needs of the child or children you adopt.

New Brunswickers are known for the depth of their generosity and the length and endurance of family ties. For decades, adoption within extended families or within the community was the norm. Today, the responsibility for child welfare is customarily assigned to the provincial government - but provincial custody and foster care cannot replace the life-long, individual relationship a parent provides.

The New Brunswick Adoption Foundation challenges each of us to ask, is there room and love enough in my life for a child?

Each of those 600-plus children is hoping someone will say "yes."

 

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I heartily approve of adoption to loving homes but I beg to differ with the premise that love is all that you need. In some situations the parents could or do love the child but society has not been very supportive of parenting. There is no birth bonus, no universal maternity benefit, no universal family allowance to age 18, no child dependent deduction to age 18, no income splitting to reduce tax for those raising children and no pension for the caregiving years. The result is that for the child's birth parents there is nearly no financial support at all. If you 'give up ' your child for adoption or the state decides your child is at risk in dire poverty, then the adoption system will fund foster parents quite generously. That seems so unfair. Why not fund natural parents too? It is true sometimes kids are better off with adoptive parents than birth parents but we really have massively tilted the balance financially when we don't support all parenting.
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Beverley Smith, Calgary on 08/11/09 09:39:27 AM AST
I really hope and pray for the children up for adoption they all need really good loving homes no matter what the story as to why they are up for adoption...I agree love is the biggest and most important thing for all kids...You need money for all the wants in life but love is what makes you want to get up every morning...Thanks for opening my eyes I didnt realize this month was national adoption month..I think I am going to look into this a little further...
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m. parker, saint john on 08/11/09 06:57:12 PM AST
There are many children and teenagers that are official wards of the courts. These children deserve a loving family and someone to give them a chance in life. If you are able to offer tlc to a needy child, please consider the options. A teenager needs love just as much as a baby. Perhaps even more so... Yes, some of them might appear tough and angry but if you can break through to them with love, you could benefit from their devotion just as much as they could benefit from you.
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T. C, Saint John on 09/11/09 02:36:53 PM AST
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